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January 2012

1 post

the "natural" transition

fuzzyhorns: i consider my transition natural. sometimes i also consider it, favorably i might add, unnatural. but i never think of it as artificial. it drives me a bit nuts when i see “natural” transition offered as an alternative to an allopathic model of transitioning. i don’t think allopathic medicine is ideal or even for the majority good, but that’s aside the point: how is what i’ve done...

December 2011

2 posts

dirtyxygirl: fuckyeahftms: So when I google my name it comes up with tons of old things that show my gender and I’m stealth so it makes me feel kind of dysphoric and worried. I was wondering if I can do anything about that? Lol, seriously? Nothing is ever gone from the Internet. That shit is just out there and you have to accept it. I’m not saying I don’t understand your concern, there’s...

It's another LGBT Tumblr: A list of evidence of... →

iragray: Here he put someone down for being poor and insinuated it was some form of punishment since the OP doesn’t like that Buck is transmisogynistic or classist. Here he posted a video of queer people of color as a token of his anti-racism? [TW: CISSEXISM AND BODY SHAMING] Here…

November 2011

4 posts

The Estrangement of Trans Gay Men from Cis Gay Men →

purplegoesbothways: femmesandfamily: this. read this. This is why I’m glad I’m not attracted to men as a man. Cis gay male culture typically has no room for us and I can only imagine it’s pretty hurtful to be erased like that. I cringe when I hear cis men tell trans men ‘But I’m gay’ or TW: Misgendering from the lgb community ‘But you’re a girl/I’m not into girls.’ i couldn’t feel...

deleting this blog

onlyjxx: hey all, I’m afraid there is a good chance I will be deleting this blog. I just hope that my followers will continue to spread awareness about bottom surgery. I’m just not feeling very good about the tumblr community right now. On top of the nasty messages I’ve gotten fairly regularly since starting this blog, I feel like this platform makes it easy for people who are reaching out to me...

October 2011

8 posts

Anonymous asked: sorry if this is a bit pushy but how was applying to college, since you transitioned early? did you end up checking "female" on the application but having your teacher recommendations, etc. with male pronouns? since i'm transitioning at 16, too, and am wondering about college and such.

i wish my boyfriend would actually remember to bring his camera to my house some time. it’s been too long since i’ve provided the world with some exciting atypical gay porn.

is natural transitioning bullshit? i vote 'yes'.

from Ask Surly Amy on skepchick.org, a site i’ve never heard of before but this article is great. when analysing the supplements included for ‘natural’ transition, she says: “The list includes fat burners, muscle builders, testosterone boosters, estrogen blockers, diuretics, amino acids, essential fatty acids, and vitamins. Sure, dandelions and garlic are natural (although...

An Unremarkable Life: Why I have never and will... →

regularguy93: I am a man who was born with what could be considered a pretty severe birth defect. At birth, I was considered female. And I was seen as female until the age of 7, when I was able to make it clear to my family that I was actually male. Until about a year or so ago, I had very little knowledge of… i think that tumblr presents a pretty unbalanced viewpoint of what being...

1419) I'm turning into an asshole. Because...

if you’re really doing this just to be more ‘like a man’ then you’re an idiot. transitioning isn’t supposed to be about altering everything about yourself to live up to every stereotype to fit in to a gender role. it’s meant to be about being yourself. if you think you need to change yourself for the worse to be a man you need to grow up and think about what...

Anonymous asked: Could you talk a bit about how you experienced your sexuality before transitioning? How is it different now?

September 2011

3 posts

Buck Angel: Buck, Why Don't You Get a Penis? →

fuzzyhorns: buckangel: I often get this question from people, mostly from those who interview me and sometimes from the general public. So last week I decided to post a response to the question on Twitter, and I did it with a photo of an FTM bottom surgery. The tweet was about me and was a response to the… buck, no, that was still a fucking shitty thing to have said. how would you feel if a...

1292) I don't like it when FTMs call themselves...

i hate the word fag personally, but i’m as much a gay man as anyone else, and regularly experience homophobia, so i feel okay reclaiming slurs that are used to oppress me. ‘fag’ is not just a slur for cis gay men. this post also assumes that no ‘ftms’ or trans men will have lived as male or had a gay male experience for most of their life which is problematic.

August 2011

5 posts

: dysphoria and "why it's great to fuck a... →

mewmewfoucault: marflixx: […] Let’s review some common “why it’s great to fuck a transguy” - Oh yeah, my dick can be whatever size/color/length you want and it never goes soft on you, and it’ll last as long as you want it to. Oh look, I’m so versatile! It’s an expected requirement that… reading this commentary was great. i fucking hate shit like that flyer, i really don’t get how...

Anonymous asked: This is probably kind of weird, but just thought I'd put it out there. I found you through ftmconfessions, and thank you so much for helping to set people straight in their messed up perceptions of being 'stealth'.

I read through your blog a bit more and found the submission you made to transqueersxxx. Wow. That is quite the picture (but you know that)!

827) I am not sure what I could do to help, but I...

what could you do to help? maybe start by stopping making misguided and frankly offensive assumptions about everyone who is ‘stealth’. i am completely comfortable with who i am, i love my body, but it’s really not anyone’s business except mine and those i choose to share it with. being male is ‘who i am’, i am not hiding anything relevant to 99.999% of the...

828) I think that a friend of a friend is trans -...

you have no right to know the details about somebody else’s body if they’re not interested in telling you. i think it was incredibly rude of you to ask. the entitled attitude of some people to know what’s going on in everyone’s pants absolutely disgusts me. what the fuck is ‘acting cis’? why do you even care? it’s so much worse when this attitude comes...

771) Stealth people make me a bit sad. I love...

except being transsexual isn’t ‘who i am’ so why should i tell people that if it’s not accurate? why are people on this thing incapable of realising everyone has different feelings/experiences around trans stuff? just cos you see being trans as a huge part of yourself doesn’t mean everyone does or should.

July 2011

5 posts

thisboyspencer asked: what kind of submissions are you looking for?

495) I always hear a lot about ftms and their...

istartedrunningg: I’ve seen a few ftms with ftm boyfriends but i dont think ive ever seen an ftm with a cis-male boyfriend :/ i’ve had lots of gay cis boyfriends / hookups (only ever slept with one trans guy), and i’m with a cis guy now. it’s a lot easier to end up with cis guys than trans guys in my opinion since there’s way more of them in the general population. i...

We NEED more submissions!

transqueersxxx: I’ve got 6 things in the queue right now: 1 is a submission, 4 are reblogs from transladysex and 1 is a self-shot I found in the trans tag. SIGNAL BOOST IF YOU CAN’T SUBMIT. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE SUBMIT! signal boost. planning another photoshoot myself sometime soon!

FTM Confessions: 242) Stealth transmen are... →

ftmconfessions: I normally try not to make too much commentary on submissions because I want them to be presented neutrally, but I was REALLY iffy about posting this one so I better say something because I still think its a valid concern. I’m sure there’s a good probability of a bunch of people going “What the… being born with something that makes you different does not make you...

June 2011

5 posts

The Hook-Up Spectrum (survey) →

xthread: Lovely people. Followers. Followers of my followers. Hello. :) As part of a research team at SUNY New Paltz, I am doing research on people’s different hook-up experiences (in this case, everything from kissing to sex). And I would like YOU to participate. Although we are recruiting participants of all genders and sexual orientations (18 years old and older) to participate, I’m...

lumineaux asked: Good lord, child, please post the ones of you actually taking it. *_________________*

Anonymous asked: hey hot picture how long have you been on t?

May 2011

1 post