b3hr:
Im Sebastian (: ftm ^-^ 13 years old (: I want friends . cuz im a loner with no friends. x3
I’m sorry but you are the kind of people who give a bad name to the transgender, and more specifically, the ftm community.
What the fuck is wrong with you? Why would you say this to anyone, let alone a 13 year old, LET ALONE ONE WHO’S PUBLICLY ADMITTING TO NEEDING FRIENDS?!
Seriously, how dare you?
You know what kind of person gives a bad name to the community? People who talk shit about/bully 13 year olds who are looking for friends, and people who think they can judge other trans* people based on their looks and some obnoxious gender-conforming ideal. You know, people like b3hr… that’s who looks like an ass here.
Sebastian, you are absolutely adorable. Be yourself, and you will find real friends who accept you for who you are. <3
Yeah, what they said! :) <3
I am sorry, b3hr , but what exactly is giving ftms a bad name? Is it red hair? Or piercings? Please. Explain.
I’ll wait.
b3hr you are not sorry. If anyone is a disgrace to the trans community it is you. Read this article and open your fucking eyes. http://baaingtree.deviantart.com/art/The-Gated-Trans-Community-208076263?q=gallery%3Abaaingtree%2F11085755&qo=8
How dare you. How dare you? Insulting a 13 year old kid that you don’t even know? Who the FUCK died and made you the gender police? Do you know why so many teenagers kill themselves? It is because of people like YOU, who tell them that they are fake, and don’t think for a second that just because you are trans doesn’t mean you’re exempt from being able to display this bigotry.
Just because you don’t agree with this kid’s gender expression does not give you the right to judge them and tell they are fake. Here’s an idea: When you don’t like somebodys gender expression then keep it to yourself.
Again, you know who make the trans community look bad? Not kids like this, but cissexist, ignorant, gender policing bigots, and that includes you.
b3hr is just a guy who is obviously not secure in himself. i know how it feels because when i was a teenager and had only been transitioning a fairly short time, i had some similar internalised prejudices about people who seemingly made no effort to look masculine, although i was fortunately never the sort of person who would air them to anyone else. now many years later i know better and know how fucking irrelevant masculinity is to being male (saying this as a not particularly masculine gay man).
i think when you are perhaps not long transitioned, maybe people don’t take you seriously all the time, maybe you don’t always pass, you can take those insecurities about yourself and project them on other people. what’s even more disgusting in this case is that the person that has bared the brunt of the attacks here is a child.
calling someone a girl isn’t going to make you any more of a man, calling someone a faggot isn’t going to make you seem more masculine (it’ll just make you seem like an asshole trying to exercise their newfound straight boy privilege… always nice to have homophobia from trans men), bullying a child doesn’t make you tough. trans men, young, old, masculine and feminine, gay or straight, need to understand that the important thing to focus on is yourself. invalidating other people doesn’t make your gender any more valid. if you were secure in yourself and you were truly comfortable with who you were, you wouldn’t behave in this way. the bloggers who have attacked sebastian need to check themselves, urgently.
