828) I think that a friend of a friend is trans - he’s very short (maybe 5’4”), high pitched voice, very young looking, no visible bulge, name ending in -aiden. I asked him but he denied it, but I think he’s lying and is trying to act cis. Later, I realized how frustrated that made me.
you have no right to know the details about somebody else’s body if they’re not interested in telling you. i think it was incredibly rude of you to ask. the entitled attitude of some people to know what’s going on in everyone’s pants absolutely disgusts me.
what the fuck is ‘acting cis’? why do you even care?
it’s so much worse when this attitude comes from other trans people. i’m not any more interested in disclosing to someone because they’re trans - it doesn’t give them any more right to know.
the few times i’ve been asked about being trans (or someone has been asked about me) i’ve always denied it. i don’t like lying but i feel like if someone is rude enough to essentially ask about someone’s genitals / medical history when they barely know them, they deserve to get lied to.
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