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20-something gay lurker

Aug 7

827) I am not sure what I could do to help, but I wish that there was something that I could do to help make stealth transguys realize that they don’t need to hide who they are. I wish we could all be comfortable with our identities.

what could you do to help? maybe start by stopping making misguided and frankly offensive assumptions about everyone who is ‘stealth’.

i am completely comfortable with who i am, i love my body, but it’s really not anyone’s business except mine and those i choose to share it with. being male is ‘who i am’, i am not hiding anything relevant to 99.999% of the population. this sentiment that guys who don’t make a habit of disclosing private and personal information about themselves are self-hating or closeted is just ridiculous.

(via ftmconfessions)


  1. darthvoodoo reblogged this from ftmconfessions and added:
    get off your high horse. Stealth guys don’t need your condescending pity.
  2. gayxxboy reblogged this from ftmconfessions and added:
    what could you do to help? maybe start by stopping making misguided and frankly offensive assumptions about everyone who...
  3. drankles reblogged this from artmotherfuckers and added:
    PREACH IT. actually, I (and...lot of my ftm friends) are
  4. artmotherfuckers reblogged this from ftmconfessions and added:
    Stop stealth-shaming. Just because someone’s stealth doesn’t mean they’re not comfortable with their identity. You don’t...
  5. austini-martini reblogged this from ftmconfessions and added:
    Um. Some guys choose to be stealth just because they want to be stealth and seen as cis to the general public, i.e. not...
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